Wednesday, January 18, 2017

                         

From Manhasset Stories: More Baby Boomer Memories
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Ode to the Public Library
by Suzanne McLain Rosenwasser

Early on I felt the silent power books command and it mesmerized me.

The world wasn’t so obvious to a child of the 1950s; its secrets weren’t spilling from newspapers, radio, television - or adults, for that matter.

When I read a book, I was met with answers to questions I hadn’t even formed.

I remember sitting on a tiny stool behind the librarians’ check-out area at the Manhasset Public Library in a small cubby-hole section carved out for tots

I listened to stories read by volunteers in whispered tones or sat alone, quietly, reading picture books while my mother looked for another John O’Hara or Francis Parkinson Keyes’ on the grown-up shelves.

The book I first loved reading all by myself had to do with a little girl named Kiki and her grandfather’s garden of sunflowers. That’s all I remember.

I can see the book on the “kiddie’s library shelf,” can remember it to be one of a series, and can imagine it, open in my little girl lap.

I’ve looked for Kiki in her original spot, as well as online, but can only locate her in my memory now - a warm and welcome guest among the hundreds of other characters from the powerful role books have played in my life.

I don’t recall the Manhasset librarian’s name, but I’ve never forgotten her kindness.

In 1957 my father suffered a severe heart attack, his first of two. I was nine.

Dr. Medd arrived at the house in minutes, followed by an ambulance that took my father to the Manhasset Medical Center. Since children weren’t allowed to visit ICU patients, I didn’t see my dad again for six weeks.

My mother managed a trip to the library during the chaos of that time, and my librarian found me wandering around the non-fiction stacks.  In answer to her query about help, I told her I needed to know about heart attacks.

She reached up and pulled a black-covered volume from the shelves.

I read the slim and simple book from cover to cover. Its title was: Thank God for my Heart Attack. I read it to my dad after he began to convalesce at home.

When I was 10, I read Betty Smith’s A Tree Grows in Brooklyn and never got over it.

At first, I took Francie Nolan’s oath and attempted to read all the authors on the fiction shelves, but soon my librarian - just like Francie’s - was making selections for me and leading me through Mark Twain and Edgar Allan Poe, and even to Michael Crichton’s The Citadel.

No challenge was too great because my librarian -  again, like Francie’s - knew I was a reader of most everything: classics, comic books, MAD magazine, Boys’ Life, cereal boxes, and bubble gum cards. In fact I had a BFF who always made me promise not to bring any reading material when I spent the night.
                                                           
In the early 60s, the Manhasset library adopted a new policy and stayed open until 9 p.m. on Monday nights. Talk about a gift from the gods for Baby Boomer teens. We were rarely allowed out on a school night without written permission from some ruling authority. Now, we HAD to go to the library. HAD to. There was simply no choice because, suddenly, every teen in Manhasset had reports to research.

We must have driven the librarians insane, and after all this time, let me apologize. During the school year, freedom after the dinner hour was a heady thing for the kids I knew, and we certainly weren’t on our best behavior.

For one thing, we showed up in droves.

There weren’t enough benches or carrels to contain us, so we stood around the reference section and pretended we were looking up interesting facts in the medical encyclopedias (a few of which were quite interesting indeed). When a librarian shushed a group too often, she shooed them outside and they congregated in the parking lot. It soon became the night version of the 3 p.m. scene outside Town Hall Pharmacy on weekdays.

In order to stay inside, students had to produce mimeographed assignment sheets. We had no trouble fulfilling the requirement, though I don’t recall ever completing any of those tasks.
Mostly, we just flirted with the other kids and accomplished some surface research about the mating habits of North Shore, Long Island Baby Boomers.

I was already comfortable at the library, so Monday nights were a pleasant, social experience for me. As a result I developed an even stronger bond to the library, spending countless quiet hours in the school libraries of my life as well as the public ones.

When teaching high school Seniors, I heard a student brag that he had never crossed the threshold of a library in his entire life. I had a visceral reaction and, on the spot, offered extra credit to anyone in the class who could produce a library card.  It was a dismal showing which led me to extend my offer to all those who could produce one within the next two weeks. I received a thank you note from our local librarian at the end of the offer.

Libraries are man’s greatest gift to himself, the treasury of our ideas as long as we’ve been recording them. Ancient wars were fought over the possession of this kind of knowledge - it was wealth and power combined.

The etymology of the word library is in the Latin word “liber” which is a noun meaning a type of tree bark, thin shavings of which provided the material to make man’s ideas portable.  This became a big business in 3 BC Alexandria which fed the papyrus trade with a pledge to collect all the knowledge in the world on scrolls in a building. They actually housed some of the country’s greatest scholars who contributed their work - subject to a strict editorial board - in exchange for lodging.

Of course, Alexandria’s library didn’t offer free circulation to the community at large. Consequently it became an attractive nuisance to pillaging potentates who were jealous of others possessing such wealth. Not surprisingly, humans have been burning books ever since. But somehow, through centuries of wars over ideas, libraries have survived.

I don’t want to imagine a world where I can’t reach for a book that attracts me by its cover, and without spending a dime, borrow it on the good faith that I’ll bring it back in one piece.
It’s this kind of trust that makes me love the library, still confident that somewhere on those shelves, I’ll find another answer - or at least meet friends for life like Kiki, Francie, and my librarian.

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Books by Suzanne McLain Rosenwasser

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Sunday, August 14, 2016

Stand up for Lt. Ed, the VA, and the USA

Lieutenant Edgar M. Rosenwasser, Army Air Corps, volunteered to serve his country in 1942. The 20-year-old hoped to become a pilot, but less-than-perfect vision prevented that. So Edgar became a bombardier navigator on a B-24 Liberator that flew from Foggia, Italy with a crew led by Captain Leonard D. Switzer on 47 bombing missions over Germany, completing 51 sorties. The average number flown was 8.

Today Edgar is 94 years old and the legs that stood him tall through war and life have gone soft, but his mind is steely strong. He has experienced a few assisted living facilities; none worth a second glance. But since April, due to the caring research of his daughter, Nancy, Lt. Ed is in the loving arms of the Veterans’ Administration. Yes, I just said the Veterans’ Administration. You know, the vilified one. 

As a result,  I’m here to say: “Hey, you. You Americans out there, get together and stand up for Lt. Ed, the VA, and the USA.”
Edgar meets his great
grand-daughter in 2013.Add caption

Edgar and Henriette married
66 years, until her death in 2008.


I saw it first hand – I saw the love and care the staff of the West Palm Beach VA Hospice extends not only to the veterans in their care, but also to the family members and friends who visit them. And for those who have few visitors, volunteers appear like clock-work. They are all former soldiers, some in their 40s, a few in their 90s, and another, I’m told, who is 107. That is not a typo. They walk – or ride scooters – from the huge teaching hospital to the smaller outer buildings that include long-term care and hospice facilities. 

Clint is one of them. He walks with a cane due to a numb leg that gives out on him, but his heart is big enough to get him along. Clint steps into Lt. Edgar’s large private room and knocks off a crisp salute with his “Good morning, Sir.” Clint is a retired non-commissioned officer which means he needn’t salute a lieuteneant, according to Ed’s son, Michael, my husband, a US Navy veteran who witnesses this with me at his father’s bedside.

Clint and the Lieutenant trade some military repartee. It means little to me, so I look around at the context of their banter. Now, my heart swells. A baseball cap with a visor filled with Air Corps décor sits atop a stack of military books. A 1940s photo of Lt. Ed and a crew of leathernecks in front of their B-24 poses there, too.  There are cards from the Lieutenant’s children, grandchildren, great grandchild, and random U.S. school kids who’ve written to say “Thanks for your service.” Encased in  velvet, a box tilts upward toward the Lieutenant's eye-level. It displays his officer bars and his medal for bravery. 


Edgar M Rosenwasser, (l, standing), 736 BombSquadron


Over a two day period, we see the Chaplain stop by to finish a conversation she, a retired US Navy vet, and the Lieutenant had begun the day before about air craft carriers. Then the hospice manager  and the dietician come in to inquire about the Lieutenant's meals and comfort; the pharmacist arrives to review Edgar's medicines with him. A technician brings in a clean blanket to tuck around the Lieutenant's legs. Dr. Michael Silverman appears for a daily assessment and reiterates that his team will do whatever they can to buoy Lt. Ed's spirits. The staff puts him in a wheelchair and brings him outside to breathe fresh, morning air, and on some fine evenings when Lt. Ed wants to savor a sip of Scotch, they are happy to oblige.

What Michael and I see here, in this hospice where Lt. Ed has come to end his days, is Lt. Ed himself. He is not the protoplasm in a hospital gown that we visited in the other assisted care facilities. He is Lt. Edgar M. Rosenwasser, an American who served his country well. He has a name, a family, a back story, and a relationship to every one of these brothers and sisters in arms, and so does every other resident of this facility.

But there’s more to this story about America at its best. While visiting Lt. Ed, we stayed in The Fisher House, a beautiful residence provided for the loved ones of hospitalized veterans. First opened as family comfort homes in 1990 with a $20 million grant from Zachary and Elizabeth Fisher, there are now 60 houses across the US and in Europe. Each serves with the philosophy that "families heal." Donations are welcome, but there is no charge for staying there.  http://www.wpbfisherhouse.org/donate.html

From their mission statement:
The road home can be a rough one---that is why we have Fisher House. It’s a Home away from Home for veterans and their families, located on the grounds of major VA medical centers and Military Hospitals.  We have one—right here—steps from the VA Medical Center in West Palm Beach. It has the highest occupancy rate of all Fisher Houses (as of 2012). Families stay as long as necessary, free of charge. It is, indeed, a home away from home.”

That says it all. In the West Palm Beach Fisher House, we were among several families whose veterans are of all ages. Some had been there for four months, but all can stay as long as their veteran is under care. The house is immaculate, the décor is modern, warm, and welcoming. There are scores of DVDs, books, and games available. The kitchen is fully stocked for any meal of the day, 

I walk around the Fisher House and hear the strains of America’s soundtrack playing in my head. Soldiers’ boots pop out from corners;  a bust of the Fishers smiles from a bureau; needlework flags hang on the walls to honor loved ones; a visitors’ book encourages mention of the veteran being attended by the family signing in. There are flowers everywhere, an abundance of k-cups provides an endless coffee selection, and Kleenex – Kleenex boxes stand at the ready in every room.

I reach for a tissue as I take it all in. I cry because I’m proud. This is our country. These wonderful gestures are from our people. Americans.  I’m proud to be one.

by Suzanne McLain Rosenwasser with Michael Rosenwasser


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West Palm Beach Fisher House
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Front Hall and the Fishers




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Books by Suzanne McLain Rosenwasser
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