Showing posts with label cemeteries. Show all posts
Showing posts with label cemeteries. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 28, 2015

Oakland Cemetery Atlanta: Penetrating Stillness




Oakland Cemetery sits in an eerie silence. It’s July, the resting souls are summer-cloaked by huge oak and magnolia trees that mute the bustle of southeast Atlanta which surrounds Oakland’s many acres. It is a quiet unlike any I’ve heard and its penetrating stillness keeps returning to me long after my visit.





The disassociated silence could be so many things because this Victorian memorial site is unlike any of the many burial grounds I have visited. It is a time capsule adorned in the garden traditions of its own period with a studied look into the Confederacy, 19th century Jewish rites, aristocratic Atlantan burial plots, and the resting places of slaves and paupers. In fact, the visual history of Oakland is so thick that the more modern gravesites, like those of golfer Bobby Jones and Mayor Maynard Jackson, seem out of place.


A main attraction of Oakland is how accessible it is. People are obviously using its beautiful, sometimes age-crumbled, pathways for contemplative walks or serious runs connected to Atlanta’s Beltline. Others are just strolling around, reading gravestones randomly. We went on a tour. Actually we went on two tours. It was hot, but it was too interesting to leave. That’s Jasper “Jack” Smith who sits at the entrance to the oldest burial plots in Oakland.






His is one of 55 mausolea within the "park," which is what Victorians liked to call their burial gardens. Here the Vics wanted living relatives to enjoy themselves while honoring the memories of their dead. They shared picnics, pruned exotic plants, and lazed away long afternoons among the groomed plots of their neighbors and the “residents” of Oakland, as the guide called the 70,000  spending eternity here.

Garden cemeteries were a fairly new idea when the city fathers of Atlanta purchased grounds for Oakland in 1850. Prior to this, burials took place in family plots or churchyards where the the most favored sites faced east so the dead could be assured of being on the right side of the sun on Judgment Day. Souls of lesser importance – like bastards, the stillborn, suicides, and strangers - were generally buried in the northern corner of a yard, far from the sight of redemption (prairieghost.com/cemeteryhistory). 

Large, pubic graveyards didn’t exist in the United States (or Europe) until 1831. Mount Auburn Cemetery in Cambridge, Massachusetts launched the movement, according to Keith Eggener ‘s book Cemeteries. The professor of American art and architecture (University of Missouri) reports that the Transcendentalists of the time were “fascinated by burial grounds, by the coming together of these disparate states of life and death, nature and culture.”

Like Eggener, I am attracted to cemeteries, (see previous blog), and I’ve loved the Transcendentalists since I first met them in a college class in Boston a long time ago, so I’m delighted it is they who cultivated the idea of the “rural cemetery park.” According to the professor’s history, the concept preceded all public spaces -  recreational ones, as well as art museums or even botanical gardens. Consequently, when rural cemeteries opened in the 1830s, the living were drawn by their green stretches of horticultural magnificence amid artistic sculptures in locations apart from the city.



All of this is evident at Oakland where tireless volunteers, even on the hottest of days, tell visitors as many spirit stories as the allotted time allows. One of my favorites is the record of a letter held by the custodians of Oakland. It was written to the parents of a dead Confederate soldier from a different state. The missive tells the family that their son’s stone is supported by a magnolia sapling. Today the marker leans against the massive trunk of a 150-year-old tree, pictured below:








The last plots in Oakland were sold in 1884, but there are still regular burials today and those, too, come with interesting stories. Consider the gravesite of Ollivette Eugenia Smith Allison (1923-2010) who was the executive director of Carrie Steele-Pitts Home for years. The first residence for Atlanta’s black orphans was founded in 1888 by Carrie Steele who, when working as a maid in Union Station, was astonished by the number of black babies abandoned there. Decades later, Ollivette Allison came to the home as a 12-year-old orphan and never left. She became known as “Great Mother.” Her monument is adorned with an elephant because elephants never abandon orphaned calves, but immediately accept them into the fold. Ms. Allison did this for an estimated 5,000 babies over the course of her career.



There are symbolic touches like this all around Oakland. They may be in a memorial depicting a cut tree trunk, indicating a life cut short in youth or in a tall arch, representing one's soul being at death's door to paradise. There are also symbols of the times - like a hitching post at a corner, black iron with a wrought ring to hold a horse's harness or a stepping stone near the wall of a family's gravesite, placed there for the visitors to disembark easily from their carriages.





The Transcendentalists of the 1830s said that garden cemeteries brought death into life.  Oakland brings the deaths and the lives of Victorians to the forefront in ways that one can experience few other places.

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Sunday, June 28, 2015

Churchyard Socials

I enjoy a good cemetery. I’m not sure why. Possibly it’s the silence, or maybe the history, or sometimes just a beautiful fence. For that matter it might be the names, the trees, the mystery, or the location. I’ve planned visits to specific graveyards, and I've stopped the car to peruse a resting ground by a roadside, or to follow arrows to old family plots here and there. I have laughed, cried, worked, and played in cemeteries. 

My novel, Don’t Ya Know, has a cemetery in it that plays an important role in the story: 

“The cemetery stood in a field off the turn-around where the shell road ended, not far from the Shellfoots’ land and a good stretch from Scylla’s Cove below. An expansive wrought-iron fence surrounded a motley outcropping of gravestones. Some of the island’s earliest dwellers were laid to rest there; two graves, with faded names, dated back to the 1730s. Several slates stood like tiny teeth among them. They were markers for small children.”

I incorporated the cemetery into the book after a trip to St. Simon’s Island in Georgia where a friend took me to a family plot, nestled back off a main road at the side of the property where her ancestors lived and died. 
St. Simon's
My friend hadn’t been there in a while, and when we approached she let out a gasp. The burial grounds had been vandalized. The intricately-wrought, iron fence had been destroyed, parts of it stolen for salvage. Several of the grave markers had been pummeled. Recovering from the shock of the sight, my friend introduced the dead, those she knew and those whose stories she had learned. She pointed to a strip of graves at the far end of the plot. The stones were simple, just names and dates - no angels, no scrolls. This is where the  family’s servants were buried, not apart from but honored within the borders of the fence. I was struck by the power of that in contrast to the disrespect dealt by the 21st century grave robbers.

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On a recent trip to New York, my husband and I stopped at the Records’ Office of Calvary Cemetery, one of the oldest burial grounds in the US which has the largest number of interments: More than 3 million, all Roman Catholics, in 500,000 plots over 364 acres owned by the Archdiocese of New York. There have been four expansions, the last occurring when graves had to be moved to build the Long Island Expressway. My mother’s family members, 8 of them, are buried in “Third Calvary.” The plot was purchased in 1902 by my grandfather, James Joseph O'Neill. A child was buried then. We found this out from a genial, office worker who actually provided great customer service. He looked my grandfather up in a microfiche database and then hauled out a huge leather binder from a vast library. There are no computer records. All information comes from the original files, so precise dates are required. He found my relatives in section 32.

Calvary
It was a misty day in June when we visited. A large, pink marble marker indicates the O’Neills’ resting place. There are no individual names for the interred, but I know who most are. Few of the dead were very old. Most were victims of immigration, tuberculosis, grief, and heredity. I paused for a moment, placing a stone on the marker and murmuring “Thank you." Later I reasoned I was acknowledging how hard their lives had been - theirs and so many of the others whose monuments rose and fell into the horizon of a settling fog that blocked the city's skyline. The scope seemed infinite.
Calvary
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Several years ago, my sister and I made a trip to Elm Springs which is my paternal grandmother’s birthplace in Columbia, Tennessee. We came on a lark to connect with our heritage, at least the part of it that isn’t second generation, New York Irish. We arrived to discover that the house we’d known from a grainy, black and white photo is an historical site, the headquarters of the Sons of Confederate Veterans. Our visit became more solemn.



Elm Springs
We learned Elm Springs, built in 1837 on an old stagecoach road, served as the Confederate headquarters of General Frank E. Armstrong in 1864. We were told by a docent that when the Yankees came, a loyal slave attempted to burn the manse down rather than have it occupied by Union soldiers. For proof, the docent opened the door to a scorched closet. This bore witness to a story our dad had told us, and at that moment we realized we really are a part of this place.

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Todd Cemetery, Elm Springs
We asked to visit the family cemetery which sits on a hill to the left of the house. Walking within its stacked-stone walls, we felt an eerie sense of wonder. An obelisk rises from the center of the plot. It honors James Dick Todd, 21, the first to be interred in 1843. There are approximately 11 graves. All are clearly marked with the Todds, Looneys and others who came along. However three of the graves bear only initials: ABW, STW, and MP. There are no records indicating who they are. I’d like to think one of them honors the loyal slave who tried to save Elm Springs from the Yankees.

But I don't know. That's the thing about heritage, one takes what one finds, and unfortunately that usually involves some kind of war. Those stories are told in old cemeteries, too. My paternal tree dates back to the Virginia grave of a great, great (etc.) uncle who fought England in the Revolution. My friend's Georgia family and my Tennessee kin waged a war among cousins, North and South. The O'Neills' fight was with immigration on the streets of New York in the 1890s. And so many wars  followed. Maybe that's what I like about cemeteries: At last, after all of life's turbulence, death has brought an ironic peace.

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                           (to be continued, don't ya know. I've visited many a cool cemetery)


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